14 yr old dating 17 yr old
As of now, you really don't know the nature of this relationship.
When she got home we asked her if she had given out our home address and phone number to any boys and she said yes. My husband and I got married when we were 18 and had our daughter when we were 17. You do have reason to be concerned about a relationship between a 17-year-old boy and your 14-year-old, eighth-grade daughter.Your daughter probably will insist that it's none of your business..it is.This is not a time for anger, blame, shame or punishment.By the way, Bill's son,dated/married the 13 yr.old's Mother."Keepin it in the Family".A boy can move out of their parents house at 18, a girl at 17. I've had to deal with this myself about a year ago when I was taken to court.If your daughter has had no prior boyfriends or flattering attention from boys, she may be very reluctant to give up this relationship, despite the age difference and logical explanations why it's not a great idea.
I would also guess she is aware of your fear that she'll repeat the mistakes of your youth.
" Knowing why she feels a need to keep this or perhaps any involvement with boys a secret from you will be helpful in talking this over with her.
You may agree to disagree during these discussions but you must respect her opinions, even if they are different from yours.
she was 21 and her boyfriend was 17 and they wanted to move in together so she asked a judge about it and he said if the parent is okay with it that a 14 year old and 20 year old can legally date. if somebody wants to have an age difference in their dating, who cares. He married her,when she was 18, and she got a Skin Disease,which effected her looks, he dumped her. He didn't get any ridacule,like Jerry Lee Lewis,did.
somebody asked on here if that was legal so i put my input on what my friend asked. It's against the Law,unless you're Bill Wyman, former Bassist,and ex-Rolling Stones member,who had a 13girlfriend,when he was like 57.
Seventeen-year-old boys are indeed at very different developmental stages -- intellectually, socially, emotionally, and sexually -- than 14-year-old girls.