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When I was 16, after a huge fight and having to call my aunt and uncle and an ambulance for my mom (who was in full blown catatonia on the couch) I had a blow up of my own with my father. My mom wants me to find a man because she doesn’t want me to be alone in the second half of my life. I wish that I could elaborate further and answer your questions, but I have too much to say to type it all out not enough hands to type or hours in the day. Thanks for your love, for reading and for your understanding. I do offer one-on-one coaching if you’re interested and would be happy to help further 🙂 The link to it is on the homepage. You’re not alone xo Natasha what an amazing post for a Sunday morning. I love you and can’t wait to tell you more soon 🙃- Diane Completely on point again. I stumbled upon your posts at EXACTLY the time I needed to.When he was sober the next day we had an epic fight. I screamed at him that he wasn’t a good father, he wasn’t my father, I had no respect for him because he is a drunk, he is an asshole and that I no longer wanted to be a part of the family. The peacekeeper good little girl do everything anyone asks and always avoid confrontation me? So, if I was good enough to change my father when his own wife couldn’t do it, why am I not good enough to change someone I love into a decent human being?? This just jump started my morning and I feel amazing and alive. Not only did I leave my relationship with an emotionally unavailable man I had to face my own trauma with my father. Especially the relationship and emotional unavailability articles.

This then sets her up with a lifetime VIP pass for riding the f*cktard ferris wheel because it allows her to justify staying in relationsh*ts.This never happens because empathy, emotional availability, compassion, loyalty and responsibility are things that can never be bribed, bought or instilled in anyone.As little girls, we want to impress our fathers and we want them to think we are as amazing as we think they are.Once you identify your daddy issues, you’ll be able to work toward making them a thing of the past and you’ll also be able to make sure that your future/current daughter knows that she’s enough. I just got out of a relationship with a truly despicable man for whom I dropped every boundary that I ever thought I had, subjected myself to and accepted from him everything you have described in your posts.If you don’t have or want kids, go find a photo of yourself as a kid and remind that little girl in the photo that she’s more than enough. Right now, I am ashamed, humiliated, angry, desperate for relief and sad that I have wasted my whole life by not recognizing that I fit the description of a reverse narcissist.You don’t have to have a bad father or an absent father to have daddy issues.

You could, like me, have a father that didn’t always express his emotions or you could have a father that you had to “work” to impress or notice you.

I’m, lucky enough to coach some of the most successful, well-known and powerful people and it never ceases to amaze me how quickly they regress to their younger, eager, validation-seeking selves when Dad sends them a simple text after skating in and out of their lives (either emotionally, physically or both) for years and years. Of course, but whether or not I get it doesn’t make nearly as much difference as me approving of and validating myself. There comes a point though when we need to realize that if a pattern exists, it’s not Dad or our boyfriend hurting us, it’s us to retraumatize ourselves because that’s all we know.

No one had the perfect parent and no one will be the perfect parent. We don’t know what availability or connectivity looks/feels like and even though we may claim to want it more than anything, we’re much more comfortable in an environment of claiming to want it while being the victim of emotionally unavailable men.

I made everyone’s bad and hurtful behavior about me not being good enough and failed to let people own their behavior and decisions because I couldn’t own my own.

My consistent pattern of being involved with emotionally unavailable and narcissistic men came from patterns that were branded in my head and heart as a child.

A few months ago, I was talking to my friend David Kessler, telling him that I couldn’t believe how a particular person in my life knew what buttons to push that would drive me over the edge. of relationship with your Father or a significant male figure from your childhood.