Dating a girl with no confidence
We weren’t fooled when they purposefully confused success and failure.
In Little League, we all kept score in our heads since our moms didn’t want us to feel bad about losing. But despite his bad glasses, big nose, and stuttering speech, he has no problem scoring.Sure, it's only a movie—and you know he's the writer—but it's believable because he's always himself, without apologies.Let her be the one to dictate the pace at which the relationship moves. Don't overdose on her, and don't forget about your friends—no matter how much you're into her.If a woman suggests doing something on your monthly poker night, let her know you can't make it because you're hanging out with the boys.By being honest about who you are—to yourself and the world—you'll exude an inner confidence that will effortlessly draw women to you like never before. THE SHY GUY You're the guy who just wants a steady girlfriend—so much so that you may drive a girl away with your tendency to smother early on, or end up missing out on fun with the guys once you've got her. Be honest with yourself about your goals for long-term monogamy; despite what your buddies may say, there's nothing wrong with wanting what you want. That means no more taking a girl to an event such as a wedding just so you don't have to go alone—even though you have no interest in pursuing anything more with her.
If you do so, you just may lose an opportunity to meet your next girlfriend.
THE PARTY ANIMAL Making the first move isn't hard for you—you're the polar opposite of the Shy Guy.
But your outgoing personality, wild ways, and desire to have good times can make women feel like they will always take second place to your ego and your lifestyle. You have all the tools you need to score—now you just need to use them to your advantage.
Whether it's confidence or self-assuredness—whatever you call it—nearly 80% of the 1,800 women we recently surveyed identified it as the sexiest trait a man can possess.
Now, in real life, Woody went on to marry his daughter, and while we wouldn't recommend that to anyone—not even the biggest losers—it does show that being the man you really are is truly the easiest way to get the woman you want.
Stay in each conversation a little longer and concentrate on listening more by asking open-ended questions—for example, "What made you consider becoming an OB-GYN? That allows her to feel like you're giving her all your attention while still allowing you to dictate the flow of the conversation. Don't tone down your personality—turn it up a notch.