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[Read: The right way to have a perfect start to a new relationship] The mind of an insecure man It took me quite a few years to actually see what I was experiencing now and then with guys I date.
The funniest part of all this is that most women don’t even know they’re actually in a relationship with an insecure man![Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.And then, it was the same with my job and with the amount of time I spent in office and how much I spend on shopping. But he always seemed hurt and pained when I went out without him. No matter what I did, unless I had his approval, he was always upset by something or the other. Nothing could ever please him, and he always had a way of pointing flaws in the things I did.
I tried changing myself for him so he could be proud of me. I was in this relationship for almost three years before we had to go our own ways for good.
A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
If your man doesn’t trust you or always seems suspicious of your behavior, there’s a good chance he’s got a lot of insecurity to deal with.
Most insecure men can’t take criticism and they’ll do anything to put the blame on someone else than accept faults and change for the better.
[Read: 15 shocking signs of insecurity in a subtly controlling boyfriend] Insecure men aren’t always insecure though.