Dating and celibate
Three years later we are stronger than ever and I plan on proposing.”8.“For me, as someone who has remained celibate in their twenties, I often asked myself why.
When I had come to terms with what had happened to me, I realised how freeing it was not having sex.On one hand, celibacy has made me feel empowered, free, and in charge of my life.Celibacy gave me control back, when my world was spinning.Your value as a woman, my mum would say, should not be based on your sexual appeal to men.My religious background has not influenced me to believe that one should wait until marriage to have sex but my mum’s words always resonate with me.I spent 11 months completely celibate without any physical contact from any guy.
It ended up being the smartest decision I ever made and was so rewarding.
"There's a rumor y'all are dating, and if it's true, I'm all for it. I hate men," Minaj said, which De Generes can relate to—albeit for a reason.
" Minaj played along and called herself "an equal opportunity boob shower," joking, "I love them both.""And does Nas like both of them the same as well? Minaj squealed with laughter at the very mention of the rapper's name.
This was always a very big part (sometimes the only part) of my relationships with men.
In my second marriage, my husband used our intimacy as a weapon to control and manipulate me.
While I don’t plan on being celibate forever, I know I made a good decision for this point in my life.”3. And after much introspection, I noticed that almost every relationship I have had with a man was unhealthy or abusive in some way.