Dating for ugly people
Take a good look at yourself, and ask whether you are neglecting the key areas of your life which are holding you together.As with everything in life, balance is the key to a happy, satisfied life.
While women may get an ego boost when they receive 30-100 messages in any given week, nobody really wishes to have that much admin to sift through.This product of social conditioning rears its ugly head online even more so, as an average of seven men compete for the attention of one woman.According to research, women who send messages to men are twice as likely to receive a response compared to men who start conversations.I used to feel like I was the wallpaper that would peel in the background when I’m in a room full with a thousand people.While I’m not a huge advocate of , I did notice that the less time I spent chasing affection and validation, the more I received in return, when I focused on growing myself as a person.Everyone jumps the gun, telling you to personalize each message you send.
You follow their advice, only to realize that not only are people not responding to your messages, they’re not even opening them.
What is the point crafting a well-thought out message if it doesn’t get opened, or worse, seen?
How to fix this: Spin it on its head and give the headline more importance.
During my early days into the world of online dating, I did an experiment. That’s like having a hole in your pocket which continues to leak money right to your door step.
Keeping everything else equal, I wanted to confirm whether there was a correlation with income and the number of responses I received. Just digging deep into some code, whilst watching the latest episode of ‘Suits’. You shouldn’t be surprised if an unwanted visitor knocks on your door, or commits an act of theft in the night.
some ugly truths we must all be aware of and conquer before we embark on a journey to find “the one.” This is one of the biggest truths about online dating nobody wants to admit.