Girls rules to dating guys
If your friend went on a few lackluster dates with someone, that’s hardly reason to make someone off-limits forever.Still, it’s imperative that you have a conversation with your friend before going ahead with the date.
Spend the night at her place, or invite her over to yours.When she shows you pictures of her date on Facebook, you will remark that you’re surprised the image didn’t break the computer screen. “If you met him through her, there is always going to be a little weirdness in the situation, and if this is your girl, what guy is ever worth that? “Also do you really want to be linked that closely in degrees of sexual separation to a good friend?I don’t.” C) Someone she went on one or two dates with, and it didn’t work out.Part of a girl friend’s main job is to boost confidence and morale when it comes to her BFF’s dating life.Maybe this means giving a pep talk on the phone, maybe this means approving outfit choices on Skype, maybe it means meeting up at a bar for a confidence-inducing tequila shot.Make sure to focus on your friendship (“I feel like I haven’t gotten quality time with you in forever, are you free next week? But if you tell her she may feel like you aren’t supporting her or she’s being attacked.
If she really loves the guy (barring extreme circumstances), you’ve just got to be a supportive friend.
What’s the best way to react to a girlfriend’s breakup?
The answers we got back were surprisingly universal, and nearly unanimous.
” If the date went horribly, you will buy her a drink and repeatedly tell her you’ve never heard of anything so terrible in your life, that you can’t believe that happened to her (even if secretly you think she’s sort of overreacting). You’ll probably have to choose between the two, and if you choose the ex, assume this means the end of your friendship. Maybe somewhere down the line you two will be able to move past this?
You’ll be shocked and appalled — you won’t try to one-up her with a story of worst first date, not now. But, until that proves to be the case, operate under the assumption that dating her ex means it’s over between the two of you.) B) Someone she dated only casually, a long time ago? And then, if she says it’s fine, ask her again, because you know all too well that sometimes when we say something is fine, we don’t really mean it.
We sent a bunch of women a series of questions pertaining to the etiquette of female friendships, as it pertains to dating: Can you date a friend’s ex?